I have to say, I understand why you might feel that way. After all, when you look back on your past experiences with women, they probably do seem to reinforce the idea that there are always going to be women who are totally out of your league and that there is nothing at all that you can do about that. You know what, though? I really don't think that it has to be that way for you. In fact. I know that for most guys, all it takes is for them to at least play with the idea that they can actually do well for women for things to begin to change. Once you understand that attraction is not really that hard to create, nor is it only based on the way that you look or how much money you make - you should be able to make the transition into being able to gain some ground when it comes to attracting women.
I'd have to say that one of the best things that you can do as a guy who wants things to change is to learn how to seduce a woman to make her want you. That is a talent that requires no money, it does not require you to be the best looking guy she has ever met, nothing like that. What it does require is that you are able to approach her, get her talking and in time, make her feel an increasing amount of attraction towards you.
I know, it sounds like I am making it sound way simpler than it really is, but you know what? It can be that simple. When you really get the fact that what you look like and how much money you make won't really matter that much at all if you know how to use conversation to make a woman feel attracted to you - the sky is the limit and things WILL seem really easy for you.
How Can You Get Started Right Now?
For most men that I have talked with about this, the number one thing that they need to do is to learn to become comfortable in approaching women. I know that it can be hard when you see a gorgeous woman and you get that gut reaction where you automatically assume that she is out of your league or that she won't even give you the time of day. However, you do have to be able to push through that feeling. You are going to have to be able to make the approach, because that is just the way that things go.
Once you are comfortable in making that first step forward and actually approaching a woman, what you are then going to have to do is open the conversation with her. You can do this with just a simple nod and a smile accompanied by a hello some of the time. Other times, you are going to have to think of something that you can say that will get her talking to you.
The Final Piece of the Puzzle Is...
When you are able to make the approach and then open the conversation, you are really only part of the way there to making a woman feel attracted to you. She may be feeling somewhat into you, but probably not enough to be able to get her to go on a date with you. What you are going to have to do now is to make sure that all the while you are talking to her, you are also flirting with her in a very playful way. This is important, because you don't want to just talk to a woman, any guy can do that. You want to be able to make her feel like there really are sparks and chemistry with you.
When she does begin to feel like there are sparks and chemistry with you, there are a few techniques that you can use that are going to escalate that into an intense feeling of being sexually attracted - to the point where she feels like she really cannot resist you.
This is HUGE!
This is really what makes it all worth it. When a woman feels like she has chemistry with a guy that is unique AND she feels like there is an immense amount of sexual attraction - you are pretty much guaranteed to be able to get a date with her